Okla. Stat. tit. 21, § 21-1151a

Any person entitled by law to the right to dispose of the body

of the decedent shall forfeit that right, and the right shall be

passed on to the next qualifying person as listed in Section 1158 of

Title 21 of the Oklahoma Statutes, in the following circumstances:

1. Any person charged with first or second degree murder or

voluntary manslaughter in connection with the death of the decedent,

and whose charges are known to the funeral director; provided,

however that if the charges against such person are dropped, or if

such person is acquitted of the charges, the right of disposition

shall be returned to the person;

2. Any person who does not exercise the right of disposition

within three (3) days of notification of the death of the decedent

or within five (5) days of the death of the decedent, whichever is

earlier; or

3. If the district court, pursuant to Title 58 of the Oklahoma

Statutes, determines that the person entitled to the right of

disposition and the decedent were estranged at the time of death.

For purposes of this paragraph, “estranged” means a physical and

emotional separation from the decedent at the time of death that

clearly demonstrates an absence of due affection, trust and regard

for the decedent.